Most people have no idea how they actually come across to others. We think we're being helpful, but others see us as pushy. We think we're confident, but others see us as arrogant. This test reveals the truth.
Traits others see that you don't recognize
Positive qualities you underestimate in yourself
How your intentions get lost in translation
You offer advice and solutions because you care, but others feel like you're not listening or that you think they're incapable of handling their own problems.
Your self-assurance comes across as dismissive of other people's opinions or experiences. The line between confidence and arrogance is thinner than you think.
You value honesty and efficiency, but your blunt communication style can hurt feelings and damage relationships without you realizing it.
You might underestimate your impact. People often see your thoughtfulness and careful words as signs of deep wisdom and emotional intelligence.
Answer questions about your personality, behavior, and social style
Send your unique quiz link to friends who know you well
They answer the same questions about how they see you
Compare your self-perception with how others see you
Possibly, but that's the point. Real growth comes from uncomfortable truths. The results are designed to be constructive, not cruel - showing you both blind spots and hidden strengths.
No! Your self-ratings are completely private. Friends only see the questions about you, not how you answered about yourself. The comparison happens privately in your results.
At least 3-5 people who know you well in different contexts (work, family, close friends). More responses = more accurate picture of how you're perceived.
Yes, but for the most accurate results, ask people who will be honest - not just those who will say nice things. Include different types of relationships for a complete picture.